Around here, I help you...

✔️ Get clear on what you actually want in love and sex
✔️ Unlearn the patterns and beliefs from upbringing and past relationships that keep you stuck
✔️ Connect with your body, boundaries, and desires so that you can relate from a grounded, authentic place
✔️ Explore non-monogamy, polyamory, tantra and/or BDSM safely and confidently in an authentic way that suits you
✔️ Turn this era into a powerful, liberating rebirth and completely change your love life forever

Private Coaching (1:1) – Sex, Dating & Your Body Wisdom

Let's go all-in on your love, your sexuality, your dating - nothing is off the table. This is an intimate, safe space to transform and empower all of you.

👀 What I'm an expert at doing with you:

✔️ Get clear on what you actually want in love and sex
✔️ Unlearn the patterns and beliefs from upbringing and past relationships that keep you stuck and small
✔️ Connect with your body, boundaries, and desires so that you can relate from a grounded, authentic, sexxxxy place
✔️ Explore non-monogamy, polyamory, tantra and/or BDSM safely and confidently in an authentic way that suits you, without losing yourself or your values
✔️ Turn whatever era you're in into a powerful, liberating rebirth and completely change your love life forever

What makes my approach unique:

🌹 I'm a certified somatic therapist which means... lean on me for emotional release, body wisdom, and deep lasting change in the way you feel, experience and relate - forget talking therapy.
🔥 Tantric professional: with my years of experience as a professional tantric masseuse, pro tantric Dominatrix and a curious non-monogamist in every day life - trust me, I do not shy away from sex and I KNOW it's power
✨ With me, deep emotional expertise meets the FUN, the taboo, and the dark, healing depths of true love and sexuality

We'll hop on a call to discuss ☎️

❤️ The Liberated Lover Method (LLM)

Have you met my signature baby, my pride, my life's work yet? She's been around for the last 2 years!

With members in over 6 countries, this is a thriving community 🌎

The LLM is my signature group program for singles who want to decondition everything they were taught about love and sex, and trust, design, and attract a love and sex life 100% true to them.

Through my signature method using breathwork, somatics and tantra, you:

  • Rewrite old stories and patterns about love, commitment, sex, fun, desires, bodies - and more.

  • Connect deeply with your body, your intuition, and your authentic (erotic) self.

  • Understand what kind of relationships actually work for you (monogamous, non-monogamous, and anything in between).

  • Learn how to own your love and sex life as a secure, self-led lover… and naturally attract partners who meet you there.

This is my ONLY group offering and it only opens a few times a year.

  • The next round begins January 2026, which will also be LLM’s anniversary 🥹

  • You can join the waitlist now to be the first to know when doors open and receive early access bonuses.

We'll hop on a call to discuss ☎️

Testimonials

What Others Have to Say

Many people around the world have transformed their love lives before you!
Check out real-life, authentic stories from people like you.

‘‘Samenda knows how to find your pain points, and can turn them into strengths in a beautiful way. I know it’s me who does that work, but she supports me. She has an eye for your struggles and what you really need, both in one-to-one and in a group setting. I feel safe sharing and laughing with her like a friend, while she’s also a professional. She has a subtle and non-judgmental way of working.’’

Paki, the Netherlands

1-1 client

''I just felt just like– I don't know who I am. I don't know what I want. I thought I wanted this one thing, but I quickly realized that's not it.

Now, it feels really good to be in a healthy relationship... One thing that has been so helpful that I found is having community to be just so open and honest and raw with.''

Rachel, Canada

The Liberated Lover Method member

"Samenda has created such an accepting community. There is never any judgement. There is love and support all around. Others holding space for you is so powerful, having different perspectives and just feeling the support given. The community has helped me open up and be more comfortable with figuring out who I am and what I want sexually and in my love life."

Bekah, the US

1-1 client, The Liberated Lover Method member

''I'm finding more fun in relating, feeling like it can be playful & staying true to what I feel like & what I need rather than wondering what they want or feel. 💛''

Florence, the UK

The Liberated Lover Method member

''Samenda possesses a rare ability to offer personalized guidance that helps you identify the blocks preventing you from living a heartfelt and genuine life. Her unique approach also positively impacts building relationships and instilling the confidence necessary to cultivate open, valuable, and positive connections."

Richard, the US

The Liberated Lover Method member

''Breathwork with Samenda is amazing. I was curious to open up, and I am so happy I did. My energy body came back into my body– I could feel how to recognize when I meet my new partner. I will know because I now know the feeling. I'm laughing because it's actually too big to put it into words.''

Laura, Germany

5 Days of Breathwork participant