Who I Am & Why This Work Hits Different 🔥
Hi you beautiful human, I’m Sam.
Queer. Adventurous non-monogamist. Multi-certified professional. Endlessly passionate about sex. Your dog's favorite auntie. Tantric nerd. Bluntly neurospicy. Professional Dominatrix.
Have you ever felt like you were “too much” for wanting more in life and love? Too intense, too emotional, too curious about sex, too uninterested in the marriage-mortgage-kids box?
Same. Trust me: I live and breathe unconventional on the daily đź‘€
I was born with the intuitive sense of:
“There has to be more than this.”
And... there is.
So I made “more” my career.
After graduating university, I left the 9–5 world immediately and spent years studying human sexuality, relating, and emotional transformation. I obtained multiple certifications in trauma-release, breathwork, emotional regulation and tantra - but I've also just been brought to my knees many times by life, by heartbreak, by Love.
In my work, I have guided hundreds of men and women in Europe and North America to:
Build indestructible self-love
Know what they want in love and sex beyond the taboo or traditional
Effortlessly attract the right partners to live their best love and sex life with
But here’s what really makes The Liberated Lover different:
Alongside investing in my formal trainings and certifications, I also have years of experience in the high-class sex industry as an erotic bodyworker and professional Dominatrix. Because you know, I study like a nerd, and I play like a goddess ;-). That gives me a kind of embodied understanding of eroticism, power, shame, desire, and taboo that you can’t get from a classroom or a weekend workshop... especially not from the ''love and light'' holistic coaching that seems to be everywhere these days.
I’ve seen the full-spectrum of human love and sexuality: its darkness, its tenderness, its holiness. I know that love and sex don’t fit in a box, and neither do you. I live by the wonderful feedback one of my first clients gave me: ''you feel safe like the non judgemental friend I can tell everything, and the expert that knows what she's doing.''
So here I am- bringing all of this together:
somatics, breathwork, tantra, BDSM, spirituality and emotional maturity
to help you create a love and sex life that feels like home in your deepest depths.
Where Somatics Meets Dark, Holy Eros
Most love and sex coaching/workshops these days are either:
Clinical, heady, distant.
“Love and light,” spiritual bypassing, not able to see the power, pain, and raw erotic truth.
Or... sexual... but not in a sexy way. It puts you off. Kinda gross.
đź‘€ Not me.
I'm deliriously devoted to both the sacred and collected as well as the thrilling chaotic darkness.
Everything I offer is grounded in:
Trauma-informed somatic therapy – we work with your body, your past, your emotions, all of you.
Breathwork Journeys – if you know me, you know she's my favorite lover... THE somatic technique to naturally release stuck emotions, energy, shame, and all you need to release from or in your body so you can feel and love fully.
Tantric sex & modern tantra – presence, energy, and pleasure as tools for deeper, better sex and intimacy.
Tantric BDSM & Domination – exploring power, taboo, worship, surrender, and control in ways that are consensual, conscious, and liberatingly real.
We go into the places you told yourself were “too much,” “too dark,” or “too weird” - and we make them home.
This is not about fixing you. This is about putting the version of you who was never broken in the driver's seat.
And I know how to get you there- because I've walked all of it myself. I don't teach what I don't know. ❤️